Are You Coming Too Quickly? Tips on How To Cross the Finish Line Together
Have you been a little * quick to the draw * lately? That’s okay! You’re not alone. A recent survey of Portuguese women found that 40 percent occasionally came to orgasm faster than they intended during sex. For about 3 percent of women, the problem was chronic.
Here are some tips on how you can s l o w it down.
Stop putting so much pressure on the orgasm! It doesn’t necessarily have to be about that. I mean, sure, that’s normally the goal, but if you’re focused too hard on it, that’s when it can backfire.
Keep the foreplay going. This is key. Doing things like edging (practiced orgasm control) can do WONDERS to your sex life and your psyche. Check it out.
If you know you have a little rendezvous coming up, try masturbating about 2 hours beforehand. This will also be beneficial in relaxing you before your date, and it will ease any excitement you may be feeling. Try going all in with our Halo Wand ;-) She’s a great pre-date date.