Have You Tried Mutual Masturbation? A How-To Guide
Like we mentioned in our last post, this quarantine is a great time to explore your sexuality! Whether you’re holed up with a partner or on your own. Also, remember that after this lockdown your sexuality EQUALS SELF CARE.
So what’s the deal with mutual masturbation? If it feels weird to you at first, just read and go with the flow.
Why would we do this instead of going all the way? Well let me tell ya! First of all, this is a great way to spice things up and it’s a front row seat to the pleasure show. You probably know how to get your partner off, but there is always something new to learn! Mutual masturbation has many benefits and here are five ways to explore.
Watching your partner get turned on is a great way to get turned on yourself. If you’re with your partner, remove all clothes you to your comfort level and lay down. Start with some foreplay on yourself by touching all of the areas that feel oh so good. Tell your partner to do the same. Using your hands, do what you do best and watch your partner do the same! If you’re able to get off at the same time, great. If not, great as well.
Turn on some porn! If, of course, you’re comfortable with that. Use some visual aid of others getting off to rev those engines.
Mutual masturbation is a great answer to those pesky LDRs (long distance relationship) - which a lot of you are involved in right now. If you’re both comfortable, gear up those webcams, grab some toys, and show your partner how you like to touch yourself and get yourself off! You can either take turns or do it at the same time. Be sure to be very focal, since you’re missing the sensation of human touch, tell your partner what you like to feel.
Even if you are not in an LDR, this can be a way to start off having some fun before you and your partner are physically together. Try sending some pictures of each other getting off before a date, it will definitely set the mood and there will be sure to be some sky high sexual tension.
Don’t forget the toys! Don’t be afraid to bring in some mega favorites like the Deluxe Mega Wand. If masturbation helps you achieve orgasm, this is a wonderful way to show your partner how to get there. If not, it’s a great way to show your partner how you like to be touched and how you like to be touched with toys.
Have fun bbs!